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“5 ways to Be a Better Boyfriend”
Maintaining a healthy relationship takes patience and effort, especially as the “honeymoon phase” starts to
wear off. If you are worried that your boyfriend abilities have been slacking lately, or if you simply want to learn how to be an even better boyfriend, this article will point you in the right direction!
1 Be honest. If something is bothering you about the relationship, then let your girlfriend know. Be sure to do this gently so that she doesn’t feel like you’re criticizing her. If you need or want something, don’t be afraid to tell her that! If something is bothering outside of the relationship and you need to be alone for a little while, or you need to vent, you should let her know!
In return, ask her if there is anything thatshewishes you would do that you haven’t been doing. This will keep both parties happy.
Let her know if you are in a bad mood and need to be alone. For example, if you are annoyed because you had a bad day at work, then tell her that rather than taking out your frustration on her. This will prevent her from thinking you are mad at her or have lost interest in the relationship.
2. Don’t cheat on your girlfriend. Even if she finds out and forgives you, it will be much harder for her to trust you in the future, which will undoubtedly lead to trouble down the road. Remember why you decided to be with her in the first place, and resist the temptation to chase after other women.
*.If you find yourself constantly tempted to cheat, then you might want to reevaluate your relationship. Everybody’s mind wanders every now and then, but constantly lusting after other women is a sign that something is wrong. Figure out whether you are really ready for a monogamous relationship with this person.
*.If you do cheat, then tell your girlfriend. For some women, the lying aspect is even worse than the cheating aspect. Find the right time and place to let her know gently, and apologize for your mistake. While this may be difficult, covering up an infidelity will undoubtedly drive a wedge in your relationship, especially if she finds out from somebody else down the road.
3 Be genuine. Don’t do or say things to your girlfriend just to make her happy if you don’t mean them. This may please her temporarily, but it will ultimately cause trouble in the relationship because you are not being totally honest.
*.Don’t make promises that you can’t keep. Give the relationship time to grow, and only make commitments that you feel comfortable with. If you think it’s too soon for her to meet your family, then don’t invite her over for Thanksgiving dinner. While relationships require a healthy balance, constantly compromising your own happiness for hers will only lead you to resent her in the future.
4 Express your feelings. Don’t be afraid of letting your girlfriend know how wonderful you think she is! This will make her feel special and loved.
*.Be sweet, but don’t smother her. Try to compliment your girlfriend and give her the attention she deserves without getting too controlling, obsessive, or needy.
5 Know how to talk to her. Give your girlfriend your undivided attention, especially when having a serious conversation. It is not only respectful, but it will show her that you care about what she is saying.
*.Keep the conversation balanced. Don’t be overly talkative or overly quiet. If you are overly talkative, your girlfriend will feel like you care more about yourself than you do about her. If you are overly quiet, your girlfriend might get bored with you or think that you have lost interest in her.